IS IT TOO LATE?

Relationships have been a part of human existence since,
The beginning of time. From birth we depended on our
Parents- mother or father regardless of the family situation,
to care for our needs until we were able to care for
ourselves. Without them we would not have survived.

Over the many years relationships have not changed.
They can be vulnerable or secure and unless you lock
yourself away from people, you cannot escape it.
Even then a relationship will have to be built between
you and the person who provides you food and care while
you are locked away.

Special circumstances that occur in our life develops
our behavior patterns in relationships.
Marriage, the once answer to mating, procreating
and a long lasting loving relationship has failed us.
Marriage cannot repair relationship malfunctions.
Realistically how many marriages have you seen that
are perfect?
Marriage is not the end of a relationship.
It is the beginning. It is a new job that has to be
Maintained. It should not like worn underwear or holey
socks that is tossed away when it has served its time.

Many spouses have been killed and tossed away due to
a bad relationship. These are individuals we have
once claimed to love and promised to stand together
through good and bad times for the rest of their lives.
You can well ask what went wrong? The partner who
had proclaimed to have found his/her last long partner
and is still looking. What is wrong with this picture?
Is murder an answer? Isn’t divorce easier than a life
behind bars.

WE need to calm down, listen and speak to our spouses.
This advice can be given but there is no way of forcing
both partners to listen. The couple that works at it is the
One who stay together. It is times like this that shows if
You have chosen the right partner. One who shares your
Goals and Interests, and has the relationship in focus.
Yet again we are lucky in this society to be allowed to
Divorce. Divorce is not the answer. It is only another
chance to fail, if we have not repair what broke down the
first time around.
***Therapist and marriage counselors are worth
the trouble. Seek help before it is too late.
Too late is when either party has said,

“TO HELL WITH THIS”