ARE YOU A GOOD MAN?

Are You a Good Man?
by 007


Last night I discovered something that
enlightened me very much, and I think
most of you could also benefit from this.

I got home as usual and sat down to a
late meal. It wasn't long before I was
bombarded with depressing thoughts
about being single. I thought to myself,
"Man, I've learned all these DJ skills,
I'm good-looking, I have a lot to offer
to a relationship, yet I'm single."

It bothered and depressed me that I
was a good man without a woman by
his side.

Then it dawned on me: isn't one of the
main characteristics of a "good man"
strength? To be a good man you have to
be strong emotionally, even more so than
physically. You have to be the anchor
in the relationship.

If I am really the good man I think I am,
then shouldn't I possess the strength to
overcome my negative thoughts?
Essentially, I realized that I was
contradicting myself by feeling sorry
for myself for being a good man and
not having a woman... yet a good man
doesn't feel sorry for himself.

So what does it mean to be a good man:

1) To walk right up to any woman and
strike up a conversation even if it means
rejection. A good man doesn't hesitate
and feel sorry for himself if he gets
rejected. Because good men are strong.
That's one of the most important
characteristics that make a good man
who he is!

2) He is confident in every way.
He stands by what he believes to be
true and maintains his values.

3) He knows how to treat a lady well,
but he isn't a pushover.

4) He is proud, but not too proud to
freak out over a relationship.

5) He doesn't feel sorry for himself.
He is strong, and strong men don't
have time for that crap!

6) He gets off his computer and boldly
gets the women he desires! He doesn't
worry about being the best looking guy
out there, or having the most cash, or
being the most popular guy on the planet.
He just does what he needs to do, plain
and simple.

So remember, the next time you feel
down about yourself because you claim
to be a good guy, yet you don't have a
woman. If you really were such a good
guy, you wouldn't be depressing about
the whole idea of being single in the first
place.

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