WEDDING BELLS!

The bells are ringing!

Are you ready for this big step?

Weddings are not all about the

gifts and the lofty celebrations.

When the guest are gone you actually

have to live with the one you married.

Are you ready to make grownup

decisions in regards to where you will live?

Have you planned how to juggle a job

and still give your partner the

attention they need?

Getting married is not playing house and

doctor like you did as a kid.

One day you may even be in charge

of a real life child.

Do you love your engaged partner

unconditionally?

Are willing to accept him/her exactly as

they are?

Are you willing to forsake all others

and be true to this partner only?

If this is not something you are willing to

do,marriage is not for you now.

Do you share the same goals and

dreams for this marriage?

Have you discussed your financial plans?

Compatibility means being considerate

of each others roles in this marriage.

In this age when roles are confused,

this is especially important.

Be aware that trying to change your mate,

after the horse has gone through the fence

will not happen.

Personality traits, specially

hidden to please a fiancée, have a

way of reappearing later.

This applies to all aspects of life- sex,

children, occupation, location of home,

religion, recreation, household

responsibilities, money, savings,

personal freedom everything affecting

life with each other.

Perfect harmony, does not happen it

has to be worked at through the years.
Dont believe that this fairytale dream

means no conflicts, tensions and

differences.

Working these out together can be

satisfying and even fun.

When you grow old together and the

children have all left home, this mate

will still be there God willing.

Will you be able to look at them and say:

"Marrying you was the best decision I

ever made"

AND REALLY MEAN IT?