Christmas and being alone?

It's the Christmas Season and clearly not a time that
we want to be alone.
As I rode the Go train in this morning trying to do my
crossword puzzel.
I was interupted two women discussing dates. My
concentration was blown and clearly I listen because
it was interesting.
One said she had met someone recently and things were going
okay and although it was not a VABOOM sexual feeling, it may
work because he was not a rush rush person and was giving her
time to adjust. She mentioned he even asked her how her day was
each time they meet to go out.
One point for him, I thought.
She remarked to her friend that it was christmas and she was
unsure if she should give him a gift or not.
Was it approriate? Her friend jokingly said. Drop him so you won't
have to get him anything and redate him after the holidays.
She should have said something small and impersonal
since they were only dating a little over two weeks.
The conversation went on and another little detail
caught my attention. She recalled another guy she had taken to her
christmas party calling up and asking if there was a party this year
and also if they were staying in the same hotel and could he come.
She was a bit put out as he had not called her back after the party
last year and was not impressed with the call.
The nerve of some men!
Being alone or going back with an ex flame in time for christmas
is a hard choice. Yes it may be a lonely Xmas but don't forget why
you parted.
Chances are he/she has not changed and rather than ruining another
yearend, Put on your gladrags and go out with friends and have a fun
but safe time. You may be in for a surprise.
It's when you aren't looking that you meet someone special in your life.
GIVE THE NEW YEAR A CHANCE!