
Will a threesome hurt my marriage?
There’s nothing wrong with enjoying a fantasy
USUALLY.
Think, talk, pretend all you want, but remember
bringing
A third party in your bed will creates jealousy,
embarrassment, possessiveness and a slew of other
human emotions that you never knew existed.
Think about whether you really want to observe
your partner having sex with another woman/man.
This image will forever be in your memory.
Threesomes generally bring out a potential attraction
to both sexes.
You may find yourself attracted to an added
female/male, something that is threatening to your
partner and confusing for you.
Of course this attraction does not mean you are gay.
What if one of you wants to keep having a threesome
and the other doesn’t?
You’re starting down a slippery slope of potentially
endless problems in your marriage or relationship.
If your focus is to maintain the marriage you are so
happy in, you must understand that a marriage is a
pair bond.
That means it’s between two people.
An occasional third only weakens this bond, creating a
pull in a different direction.
There is always a thrill to newness and to forbidden
sexual acts.
If the threesome fantasy is stirring your juices, I
recommend you try new and different things instead.
Wear sexy lingerie, buy a sex toy, play French maid,
try a new coloured wig, try new positions in new
places at new times of day.
Do these things with your husband —
as long as it is just the two of you.
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