I DO -TIPS

Over the many years or so, people have been
meeting marriage partners in a few basic ways:
-By introduction from friends and family
-In high school or college
-Through a social organization like a church
or a temple
-At a bar or dance club

Meeting someone right off does not tell you
everything about this person.
This person could have many hidden traits that
conflict with what you are seeing.
It takes a lot of time to really know a potential
partner.
Anger management issues ruins a relationship
pretty fast.
Most people on their first dates are in control of
their behaviour. They can hide this for many
months.
By the time you determine that your boyfriend or
girlfriend has anger issues, you've already fallen
in love.
You've already made some sort of mental
commitment to the relationship.
It's so very hard to walk away.
Yet its crucial to walk away in some cases to save
your life.
Don’t blame yourself for being picky.
Choosing a partner you want to be with forever
is one of the most significant decisions of your life.
After the final “I DO” you and this person are
settling for each other. You have to live with the
little faults we see in each other.

The person you choose to wake up next to each
morning has the power to determine the quality
of your life.
The two persons directly involved in the
relationship have to live with the consequences of
this choices, and they should be FULLY informed of
the health and mentality of their future partner.

If either partner has ANY concern about the
personality or behavior of the other, they should
never expect that this concern will simply
dissolve over time. When you chose a partner
you want to live happily with the other person
for as long as you both shall live.
Not to spend time fixing them up to suit the
image you expect.

In making your final decision about your partner,
watch for signs of internal qualities in yourself
or the other person that tend to become
obvious when the initial excitement has worn
off a little. Are you compatible? Can you
live with those little quirks?
Hold out for pre-engagement counseling if not.
Be willing to search for the TRUTH about your
relationship.
They say Love is blind but neighbours ain't.
Ask you friends for their opinions. maybe they
see things you don't.
Address those issues before taking the final step

and good luck!!!!!!!!