CHEATING!!!!

You're in a relationship with a wonderful person,
who may be cheating on you.
This is the concern of many partners in
relationships all over have.
Does the thought of partner with someone else
makes your skin crawl?
What would you do if it happened to you?
There are many signs that that prove your
partner may be cheating.
The most important is a change in their day to
day activities and appearances.
Now there's no need to get all paranoid and
suspicious.
If you suspect an indiscretion:

1. Do not accuse her/him of cheating.
Think! If you accuse or threaten and you're
wrong, they’ll feel that you really don't trust
them
2. Has your partner has given you a reason
to believe that they are two-timing you,
or is it your imagination running wild?
3. If you think your partner may be cheating,
ask her/him if everything is okay, because
they have been acting different lately.
4. Give your partner examples of how
her/his behavior has changed, and ask if
there is a reason.
5. Ask if there is something you should
know or tell your partner you don’t believe
they have been 100% honest with you
6. If there is no way that this is a
misunderstanding and you are positive that
your partner has been cheating then you
can approach her with more assertion.
Tell her what you saw, how it makes you
feel, and what you plan to do about it.
NO VIOLENCE PLEASE
7. Open up the lines of communication and
encourage your partner to open up and discuss
the troubling factors in your relationship and
proceed from there.
8. Use a passive way of approaching this
situation, because if you're wrong, you may
be messing up big time. But if you're right,
then you have permission to be angry.
Remember being angry does not mean
hurting your partner.
9. Being unfaithful in a relationship is destroys
the trust built up over time.
Cheating may be the result of a problem in
your relationship that you were avoiding.
This doesn't make their actions right.

If your partner has cheated, you need to
decide if you can trust your partner again.
If the answer is NO do not stay together.

If the answer is Yes- It may take time,
but you can give it another try.
You have to learn not throw the past in
their faces.
IT IS OVER an you have a new beginning.
If the cheating was something lacking in your
relationship you must be ready to work
on the problems in your relationship.

We all make mistakes and while it does
not excuse the cheater’s actions it is a human
re-action.
If your partner shows remorse for their
actions then it is worth the shot at your
relationship.

Remember its easy to forgive but
forgetting takes a whole lot of time!!!