Dating today does not lead only to rosy gardens and white picket fences. Dangers lurk along the way and we need to be mindfull of these dangers.
HIV, STDs ,Date Rapes, Online Stalkers, and the usual getting dumped and used.
Chemistry is one of the things that blind us, Physical Attraction is a great thing but when its the only thing keeping a relationship going we have major problems.
Remember also when dating no one wants to know about your insecurities, deadend jobs and failed relationships. Each new date should reflect something New and Positive about you. Dating and finding the Right one can be frustrating and but if you are negative you will scare off prospective suiters. WebMDHealth has a post on Dating Dangers I found interesting:
Dating Dangers: Love's a Minefield
Dating advice from the experts about how to find Mr. or Ms. Right.
Danger: Is It Date Rape?
Here's the really serious stuff -- a woman is vulnerable to rape in her own home, or even if she voluntarily goes to someone else's home. Even if she consents to some activity, that does not imply consent for all sexual activity. When a woman says, "No" or "Stop" that means STOP. Even if alcohol or drugs are involved, even if she doesn't put up a fight -- even if she's a former girlfriend -- it's rape if she says, "No."
You can't be too careful; date-rape drugs such as GHB, Rohypnol, or Ketamine can render a victim unconscious and with limited memory. Using these drugs is a federal crime that carries a possible 20-year sentence.
A few rules:
Don't accept open drinks, whether they're alcoholic or not, from someone you don't trust.
At parties, accept only drinks that come in closed containers. Never leave your drink unattended or turn your back on your table.
Do not drink from punch bowls, pitchers, or tubs.
Another idea: Carry a Drink Safe date rape drug test" package of drink testing strips or coasters in you
