
people who date younger partners?
Cradle-robbers! child-molester?
It seems it has always been more acceptable for an
older man to date a younger woman, but not the
other way around.
In fact, many men have left their older wives behind
to hitch up with a younger model.
Why is is okay for men to date younger women but
not okay for women to date younger men?
I have heard the remarks made behind these
couples backs.
"Hey wait til she gets wrinkles he will dump her."
1- Demi Moore and Ashton Kuschter,
2- Cameron Diaz and Justin Timberlake,
3- Mary Tyler Moore and her
optometrist husband who boast a 20 year
age difference.
These relationships are a sign that it may no longer be
in bad taste or taboo for women to bridge the age
gap by dating a younger man.
There are many risks in these types of relationships:
a. The older person may lose their sex drive or their
looks. Looks can definitely change suddenly and
rapidly between the ages of forty and fifty and
although the younger person may swear that
they will never ever leave you, the sad truth is
that most people do not look the same at fifty-five
as they did at forty-five.
b. Another concern is the question of childbearing.
it maybe a disaster for women who may discover
that their young buddy suddenly wants to fulfill his
biological directive to have children.
Of course, adoption may be an option for couples
that find themselves truly in love.
c. Many of these relationships may take on the
mother child role. This is not always the case, many
younger men who take up with older women seem
to have a maturity that is missing in some older men.
This I cannot explain but it happens.
BUT HEY what about the much older woman and a
young teenager (15)? No one is going to tell me
that is love and expect that I will believe it. A guy in his
twenties and a guy in his teens are two different things.
AHHHHHHHHH
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