Saturday, October 15, 2005

IS IT LOVE?


How do I know if I am truly in love?
Many people have a fear of being alone.
A love relationship does not fix this fear.
It may even create more problems and
Discord in your life.
The biggest question, on everyone’s mind,
At sometime or the other Is
How can I tell if I am truly in love?
Well if you have to ask you may not be.
Examining the relationship you are in is
Very important.
Some people are in love everyday.
Others are more selective and still others
Are looking for a lightening bolt that they
Have read about in those love books and
Comics.
Well if a lightening bolt hits you I pray you
Have insurance.
From the age of 15 to 19 I waited patiently
For the kiss with the lightening bolt.
It took me a long time to realize these books
were using an example to show that love
creates a different feeling in us when we
have met our intended.

Lust is common feeling that can be felt
without being in-love with the one you
are dating. It is a basic chemistry attraction
between 2 people, which is sometimes
mistaken as LOVE.
Ask the expert: ME
When sex has been accomplished you
are uncomfortable with the person,
as you basically have nothing else in
common.
You may react jealously when this person
seeks out others with their own interests
and many arguments may erupt.
Lust creates fantasy imaginations where
you find yourself recreating your every
move in the relationship before it happens.
It may seem exciting at the moment, but
It quickly drains you.
Lust is not love.
Pray you discover it before
you marry LUST as I did.

Love should involves some sort of
attraction to the person you are dating,
but it should not be your only link with
that person. Love should create a
fulfilling union and a partnership of
peace and tranquility.
It should be a caring feeling, and result in you
wanting the best for the person you are dating.
It should be a friendship built on trust and
commitment and shared interests,
A secure feeling where you can depend
on this person to think of you also when
making decisions in the life you share.
Love is not about jealousy.
There should
not be endless conflict.
Love should be a
positive feeling without the doubts of
mistrust, jealousy, insecurity,
aggressiveness or spitefulness.
Only you will know what love is to you
You have to find it for yourself.
ONLY THEN CAN YOU TRULY SAY
THIS IS LOVE

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